Consistency is STEP ONE in ensuring positive communication about money, so I would highly suggest reading that money date post first and then coming back here to learn exactly how you can get your spouse to stop spending money. A BIG question that a lot of people need help with is…HOW DO I GET MY SPOUSE TO STOP SPENDING MONEY? ), here are 7 tips that will really help them to want to stop spending money! Use these tips to get your spouse to stop spending money and get on the same page when it comes to your finances. Looking for more ways to help your spouse stop spending money?